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Chusana Prasertkul's avatar

I really enjoyed your writing - especially in the About Me section in the AI comics. I used to live in the UK where law on prostitution is more relaxed, although regulated. Selling and buying sex is legal but running a brothel, pimping, or advertising it is illegal. I've moved to Thailand 4 years ago and everything to do with prostitution is illegal but I know more people who uses the service.

Having seen two different ends of the spectrum, the realities faced by those in the sex industry aren't going into prostitution as a choice made from a menu of equal options. It's a desperate measure in situations of financial dire straits, societal exclusion, or even coercion.

I've read that some workers have claimed to have autonomy and even empowerment in their sex work, but for others, it's a survival strategy amidst limited opportunities. I think we should reflect on the fact of how societies can address the root causes that compel individuals to sell their bodies.

Selling one's body to strangers can be profoundly soul-destroying. People are literally compromising their sense of self and integrity - often resulting in a deep sense of disconnection from one's own body and emotions.

With prostitution, you are literally treating one's body as a commodity to be bought and sold.

And from the consumer's side, I've seen those who frequent sex workers changed over time. Their sense of value on relationships becomes warped. Mistaking paid sex for companionship.

I guess I'm just ranting here. It's been bugging me for a long while since I started contemplating whether prostitution does good or more harm to society.

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Trading Places: A Dr’s Memoir's avatar

I enjoyed this post. Ive been to Amsterdam. I curse but because I live in the USA I censor myself. Im a gynecologist and never learned about “sex” per se even in medical school. Had to educate myself. The policing of sex and women’s bodies is beyond all understanding and common sense.

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